#7: Pho Peace Summit: Shanghai, China

Hoang Sa Islands? Xisha Islands? Let’s settle it over a bowl of pho. The Paracel Islands have been in the news over the past few weeks not because of their tropical beaches or iconic full moon parties. The flora and fauna of the islands is of little concern to either side. The dispute is over the rights to the potential oil reserves around the islands and control of the South China Sea waterway. In this ongoing dispute between Vietnam and China, China claims the uninhabited archipelago known to them as the Xisha Islands belongs to them while Vietnam claims that the Hoang Sa Islands is rightfully theirs. There are serious implications in regards to the outcome of this dispute. If China maintains the globally unpopular position that the islands are theirs and the international community cannot arrange a compromise, they will tighten their grip as the world’s emerging superpower. The precedent set if their actions go unchecked and will mirror those of Putin who defied the Budapest Memorandum on Security Assurances and annexed Crimea as part of Russia. By all accounts, Putin’s appetite to restore Mother Russia remains unsatisfied as he has his eyes set on other parts of Ukraine and even Moldova. The same can be said about China, a country that has territorial disputes with the Philippines, Taiwan, and Japan. These countries are more capable foes than Vietnam given their own militaries and U.S. backing making the outcome in the Paracel Islands ever more critical. Make no mistake, China is using the Paracel Island dispute as a test case of what they can do without international reprimand. The natural culmination of this interesting tug of war ends with the professor’s peace accord. The complexities of the negotiation require both sides to come to the table and engage in a meaningful discussion. Such talks cannot commence on an empty stomach. Pho peace to prevail, I propose setting a meeting at the 7th best place in the world to get pho– Shanghai, China. a city skyline with many lights and a body of water Pho Sizzling’s uncompromising flavor and cost-conscious menu will placate China’s desire to swallow whole the sovereignty of its neighbors.  a sign with a red and white text

The Cake of My Life

IMAG0226 I’m feeling so blessed to have so many people tell me happy birthday on Facebook. No, no, no, I will not write that and really can’t deal with people that do. I do appreciate when I get the annual Happy Birthdays but really enjoy when they have at least some personalized message. For example, my friend wrote “Happy Birthday jackass” which is more thoughtful than a nondescript “Happy Birthday”. I turned 32 today which is great because I am finally getting old enough to justify being the angry, old man I have always been. Anyhow, the reason for this post is to use my blog to ensure that my birthday wish comes true; sell 1 million copies of my book Everyone’s Advice Is Wrong . . . Including Mine which is due out in less than a month. Happy Birthday to me, now please buy my book! IMAG0225  

Arabs Fight Over Who Makes the Best Kebab

Americans compete over who makes the best bbq, Vietnamese the best pho, and us Arabs, we fight over who makes the best kebab. Kebab, kebab, kebab, that’s all I’ve heard all week since my parents came to visit. Even though I currently live in Arizona, home to tasty Mexican food (shout out to Los Betos late night drive thru) my mom made it clear that she did not want to go to a Mexican restaurant the day she arrived. She wanted kebab. With that, the marathon of kebab began. Stop 1: The Persian Room in North Scottsdale: This used to be the go to place for kebab in the Valley. With generous portions, great prices, and a bustling dining room, anyone who was anyone in the kebab community came here for Iranian kebab. IMAG0152 Then tragedy struck The Persian Room; they got a new oven. If ice cream is to apple pie then bread is to kebab. While one may be able to survive without the other, the synergistic effect of the two is immeasurable. The Persian Room for an inexplicable, baffling, and inexcusable reason decided to change their oven from one that used to produce hot, fluffy, delicious bread to some Set It And Forget It contraception where the bread comes out flat and dry. Picture your favorite puppy before and after falling into the pool. Without the trusty sidekick of bread with kebab, my parents and I enjoyed a deflated dinner of kebab. Stop 2: Pars Restaurant in North Scottsdale: Pars is another Iranian kebab palace in Arizona. Iranians lay claim to making the best kebab but as an Iraqi I beg to differ. Historically, this has been a subject of great dispute. See Iran-Iraq War 1980-1988. Preaching for peace in the Middle East, my parents and I broke bread (slightly fluffier than The Persian Room) at Pars while waiting for or kebab to arrive. Out comes the kebab, all tender and juicy, but wait! Where is the mint, basil, and sweet onion? If ice cream enhances apple pie, then whip cream makes it orgasmic. Same analogy holds true with kebab depending on your bonus toping of the aforementioned three. For me it is sweet onion, of which Pars had none. For my dad it is basil, of which Pars had none. For my mom it is mint, of which Pars had none. The critically observant kebab critics left stuffed but slightly unsatisfied. Stop 3: My Uncle’s House: What’s a vacation without family? What’s a family invite without kebab? My uncle laughed at our Persian experience and welcomed the prodigal sons and daughters back to the land of Iraqi kebab. Combining the best of both worlds, Iraqi and American, he fired up the grill and set fire to the freshly prepared kebab.

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Kebab Jungle: Home of Best Iraqi American Kebab
While I would love to give you a full report of how it compared to the others, I am too full to type another letter.

I Speak Autocorrect

So my parents are visiting this week making airing (writing) p oats posts difficult. I still use my blackberry but I can’t use it to ride posts. So I’m using this great HTC m8 to write a post and complain. I’ve already but backspace 100 times and I’m about to give up. I have two points to make: 1. Autocorrect is terrible. While we all knew this it goes beyond bad word selection. Why doesn’t Autocorrect be grammar correct abs intuitively use plausible words. Yes it used abs not and. 2. Signature lines. I apologize for any errors. Sent from iPhone Sorry that isn’t a valid excuse for laziness and for blaming your dumb smart phone. It’s bad enough no one uses words anymore, opting for smileys. And lol. That you can’t even read your emails. Perhaps laziness is not the culprit and Autocorrect is to blame. Perhaps we should all switch back to blackberry image My excuse to blame Autocorrect

Canada Gave Us The CFL! Please Don’t Take It Away

In the world of sports there is nothing that compares to football. No I’m not talking about international football, known to us Yankees as soccer, nor am I talking about Australian rules football, better known as who knows what, nor am I talking about American football, better known as real football. No my friends, I am talking about Canadien Football-the CFL. What is more entertaining than the CFL, I dare you to answer. Doug Flutie, Maurice Clarett, and all those other legends make the CFL a must watch every Sunday (I think they play on Sunday). The field is longer, there are 3 downs instead of 4 and I think they measure stuff in meters not yards. But, tragedy may strike this great game in the form of a strike. No great sport is immune to strikes from baseball, to basketball (twice), to NHL hockey, to the NFL (refs). Strikes are a part of business and a part of life but I can only hope and pray that the CFL doesn’t go on strike. This year I really think that the Hamilton Tiger-Cats have a chance to win it all. Only the devil’s intervention of a strike could make this great dream turn into a horrible nightmare. So please world, join in and pray with me that the strike doesn’t happen. Maybe their savior will come in the form of God’s second son, Tim Tebow. This blog was written for my cousin George, the only person who watches the CFL.

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Do You Have a Visa?

The U.S. passport is the gold standard of passports, or so I used to believe. In 2007 my friends and I were supposed to go to Brazil for New Years only yours truly was unaware of the visa entry requirement forcing us to cancel the trip just two day before departing. Back then the word visa conjured up memories of my parents immigrating to the United States. So why as an American would I ever require this document just to go on vacation? The answer is reciprocity and politics; The US government forces visitors to have one so they, in turn, require Americans to have one as well. Fair enough, that’s not the point of this post. The point is since the Brazil debacle, I have always checked and rechecked the entry requirements for every country because I do not want to ever experience that sick feeling from 2007. But, even with my due diligence, I still encounter trouble and inconvenience. This brings me to the interesting nightmare I experienced when I was traveling from Istanbul, Turkey to Seychelles. The routing, due to a free points ticket, was a bit unconventional and included a stopover in Khartoum, Sudan. DSC01024 Sudan isn’t the safest place in the world right now and they do require a visa for tourists wanting to visit. I did not, I was simply passing through.

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My flight landed in Khartoum late in the evening with plenty of time to make my next connection. At the Customs entrance, I was asked for my visa and I replied with the magical word in transit and they again asked for a visa. Again, I said in transit and back and forth this game went till I was told to step out of line. They sat me down in a waiting area and asked for my passport. I hesitantly handed it to them and watched them walk away with my freedom. Moments later a few officials came back in my vicinity and started speaking about me in a foreign language. Luckily for me and unbeknownst to they were speaking in a language I understood- Arabic. Rough translation: “This American doesn’t have a visa!” Meanwhile, I sat there in ignorance pretending I had no idea what was going on. “Where is your ticket to leave Sudan,” they questioned in English as I checked my watch to see how much time I had left till I missed my connection. “I’m in transit,” I replied, “You have to print me my ticket.” “We cannot let you into Sudan without a visa.” “I don’t want to go to Sudan, I want my ticket so I can leave Sudan.” Puzzled, the group huddled up and kept carrying on in Arabic about “Amreeki” and “no papers”.
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Finally, they said come with me and escorted me back out the door from which I had arrived onto the tarmac. A little nervous, I followed the armed guard to another gate where passengers were waiting to board their flight. From there I felt like a video on rewind as I went backwards through the security checkpoint, through the terminal, and out to the entrance of the airport. At last, I had made it into Sudan! Wait, I don’t want to be in Sudan, I’m in transit! The officer told me to wait as he went to the ticket counter. More discussion, more argument, but I finally was given a ticket to get out of there. On a side note, Khartoum’s airport is terrible. Ticket in hand, still ample amount of time, I started to make my way to my gate. I approached the Customs desk and handed him my passport (luckily retrieved) and my boarding pass. He flipped through my passport and perplexingly asked, “Why don’t you have a visa?” In transit! I said as calm as I could. Unconvinced, he asked for his supervisor. More discussion, more argument, and I was finally allowed to pass by. The next stop was the metal detectors and security screening. Surprisingly or unsurprisingly, there was no fuss at this final checkpoint. At the gate, with moments to spare, I sat there, eager to leave Sudan. My row was called and I headed to door, my eyes set on the plane that would get me out of Khartoum. The scene from Argo flashed through my mind as I was steps away from the plane. Confidently I walked up to the door, ready to board till I heard the words of the gate agent… “Do you have a visa?” I’m in t-r-a . . .

A Vacationer’s Guide to Vacation

It’s been a longstanding tradition for me to go somewhere out of the country for New Year’s. The tradition started way back in 2001 when I went to Cancun then the expedition meekly shifted to our great neighbor to the north, Canada. In 2002, we went to the legendary club Guvernment in Toronto (finally closing after 20 years). To be fair, I was only twenty at the time. After losing my best friends shortly after the NYE countdown, I spent the rest of the night wandering around this monstrosity of a nightclub. The year after, my best friend Mikey and I went to Montreal for New Years. It was absolutely freezing. Our days consisted of sleep and our nights consisted of drink. All in all it was a miserably cold, great time. I had the chance to visit Montreal in the summer. I highly recommend deferring till then. So why do I love Montreal in the winter? The answer can be summarized in one word: guilt. Actually, it is lack of guilt. The problem with traveling is the guilt that consumes you if you spend all day in bed after staying out all night long. Even with the blackout curtains, you know there is a city to explore, a beach to wade in, and a pool party to…party in? Prepositional faux pas aside, there must be a strategy for going on vacation, seeing the sites, and partying all night. Luckily for you, my dear blog readers, I have come up with said strategy. It is called Take Control of Your Vacation and is a philosophy that not only applies to trips but also applies to life. See Part II of my book Everyone’s Advice Is Wrong. Here are some tips on how to go on a trip, live it up, and avoid that feeling of guilt from not seeing everything you can whether it be the attractions in the day or the atmosphere at night. Strategy 1: Stay in One City for 3 Nights at the Most. The original strategy called for staying in a city for only 2 nights. It was geared at partygoers who wanted to travel to many cities in a trip but became fatigued from hopping from city to city. The rationale behind staying two nights is as follows: Night 1: I just got to this new city, it’s my first night here, I have to go out! Night 2: It’s my last night in this city, I have to go out! I have expanded it to 3 nights because there is more to traveling than partying. By applying the 2 night strategy, you can, at the least, go out 2 nights, while saving 1.5 days for seeing the sites. The same rationale applies to tourist attractions. “Oh, I’ll climb the volcano in Bali later on, we have 11 nights here.” Result: One more FGD drink at Bounty Bar. DSC01555 DSC01526 Strategy 2: The Big Jambox Tired, beaten, worn down? Maybe you’ll just hit the snooze and skip out on the day. Maybe you glance over your phone and convince yourself that partly cloudy really means rain so you can give yourself a snow day. With the same amount of energy that allowed you to check the weather on your phone, turn on Spotify, and play that overplayed vacation theme. That will immediately get you out of bed, day or night and get you back to doing what you are supposed to be doing- exploring.

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Jay Z still plays, but now I’ve graduated to Big Jambox
Strategy 3: Espresso, Patrón, Sugar Free Redbull, Shots Jambox not doing it for you? Immediately roll that Jambox tune into a drink. If you’re staying at a finer points hotel, they surely will have a Nespresso machine that has instant delicious espresso. If you’re in a hostel, then skip the java for some Jack, better yet Patrón. That instant buzz will get you on your feet and on your way.
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Do I need to comment? Brazil is synonymous with celebration

The 2014 FIFA World Cup is upon us and I am ready to go. Whether I actually do is another topic altogether. The World Cup highlights the best things in life and therefore encapsulates the whole idea behind ThePointsOfLife. I will show how my blog is unique section by section, using the World Cup to hit all categories. 1. Points That word either intrigues you or turns you off to the site. Points lovers and points haters both have expressed the viewpoint that there needs to be more or less emphasis on points in ThePointsOfLife. As a pointsoholic, I say to the lovers, your wish is my command but caution, as I have always done, that points travel is only Step 1. To the haters, I plead please read the post Living Doesn’t Have to Suck: 5 Myths About Earning Points. In all seriousness, apply for a couple of cards, take one business class flight for free, and if you’re not hooked, I’ll refund you your time. If that doesn’t convince you, skip this section and move on to the rest, guaranteed to be points free. So what’s the relationship between points and the World Cup? Simple, the World Cup will cost thousands of dollars to attend and flying to Brazil will certainly not be cheap. Furthermore, the World Cup is held in various cities throughout the giant country of Brazil so flying around the country to visit various stadiums will be a big expense.

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How can anyone argue with $2.50 versus ($1420 + $2.50)! 2. The Pulse The World Cup is an international celebration where everyone is united by their love of the beautiful game. By attending, you get to interact with people from all over the world while enjoying the offerings of the host country. And what country has a richer country than Brazil? The beaches, the food, and of course, Carnaval, make Brazil one of the best places to visit. Add in World Cup competition and it may be a bit overwhelming. Also, did you know that Brazil has the second highest population of Japanese people outside of Japan?
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Carnaval Street Parade: Copacabana
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Sugarloaf Mountain
3. Travel Advice Everyone knows about Copacabana and Ipanema but it is worth leaving Rio for a few days to explore the hidden beaches of Buzios. Brasil (478)
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4. Drink One word: Caipirinha. This is the drink of choice on a hot summer day in Brazil and is freshly prepared at the right price. Two of Rio’s famous beaches are Copacabana and Ipanema. Ipanema is regarded as more upscale so, if my memory serves me correctly, they charge $3 instead of $2 for this unrivaled cocktail. Brasil (388)
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Made fresh on the beach
5. Food
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From the beach vendors, to the Garota de Ipanema (the restaurant where the Girl of Ipanema was written), food is not in short supply. It is inexpensive and it is delicious. Go to Bob’s Burgers if you want to be an uncultured tourist and have some junk food- always allowed once a trip. Brasil (697) OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA
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Brasil (638) 6. Pho? Haha, did not get a chance to try it. I welcome a reader’s review. 7.  Sport Obviously, the reason you are going to Brazil in the first place. It will be interesting to see how Brazil handles the record number of people in regards to the security concerns. I have never been to a match in Brazil but did go to a regular season game in Buenos Aires, Argentina. The hotel recommended that we buy tickets through their vendor and we were escorted via private security at the stadium to avoid the hooligans. I’m skeptical if security was necessary but the fact that visiting fans are not allowed to attend games made me think twice about not having it.
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Marcana Stadium Rio: Capacity 96,000
8. Party Do I need to comment? Brazil is synonymous with celebration.
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Carnaval 2008
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Living Doesn’t Have to Suck: 5 Myths About Earning Points

The mantra of ThePointsOfLife is Living Doesn’t Have to Suck because it doesn’t. The first step from my book Everyone’s Advice Is Wrong is Enjoy #ThePointsOfLife where I provide an overview of the limitless possibilities of points travel and demonstrate how traveling opens your eyes to new opportunities leaving your cubicle life with much to be desired. Even though I tell everyone about how easy it is to accumulate points, nobody follows the Points101 guide or comes up with reasons why the points game is not worth their time. Then they fly first class for the first time for next to nothing and are finally believers, posting pics of candy buffets.

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stolen photo of converted points believer
Here are the top 5 misnomers about earning and redeeming points: 1. I will ruin my credit. “I thought that if you apply for credit cards your credit score goes down.” This is true and false. When you apply for a credit card, the bank pulls your credit to make sure that you are not a bum. That reduces your credit score by 1-2 points because a credit inquiry is warning other lenders that you are asking for credit, increasing the chances that you may default. But! When you do apply for the card and you meet the minimum spend in order to get the sign up bonus, say $3000 in 3 months, and you pay off the balance in full, the banks will see that you are indeed more responsible than when you first applied, and your credit score may actually go up. I have applied for dozens of cards and I still maintain a healthy credit score. 2. I will end up in credit card debt. If you are irresponsible or cannot manage your finances then this is true. But, if this is the case, chances are your credit is already bad to begin with, placing you out of the points game. So long as you do not change your spending habits in order to meet minimum spends, this will never be the case. Furthermore, if you do  end up in credit card debt, then it’s points game over for you because now banks see that your debt to credit ratio is poor, leading to a lower credit score, leading to denials. 3. I have to spend thousands upon thousands to get points. This is the most annoying myth by far. If this was the case, then only rich people would participate in the game or everyone would end up ruining their credit or going broke trying to participate. And, why would rich people waste their time trying to accumulate points when they are already rich? The points game was created for those with budget constraints that want to see the world today. Then when they complete Part II of the book, they hopefully will be on their way to financial security allowing them more opportunities to travel. In any event,  I would have to become obscenely wealthy to say no to free. 4. There is no flight availability. This is the easiest excuse to make. “Why should I spend all my time applying for cards, tracking offers, meeting minimum spends for points that have blackout dates.” The concept of blackout dates is dated. There is no such thing. Points trip planning requires creativity and a knowledge of flight routes, alliances, and redemption rules. Fortunately, you can just ask me if you are stuck with a mountain of points and do not know how to redeem them.
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the proof is when friends fly for free
5. I have to be a mad scientist to figure it all out. Initially, it is overwhelming to starts the points game process. But if you follow the simple instructions in Points101 and ask questions, you will slowly but surely learn the game and travel the world for free.
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The Park Hyatt Sydney and the Case of the Missing Koala

The Park Hyatt Sydney Review is part of the Trip Report: The $77,000 Trip Heard Round the World which covers 5 Continents, 13 Countries, and 17 Cities.

Find the nerdy planning here. Find the picture preview here.
Getting Here: From the website: Sydney domestic and international airports is approximately a 20-minute train trip in to the city, with an approximate cost of A$16 per person. The closest train station to Park Hyatt Sydney is Circular Quay. You can’t miss it once you get to Circular Quay. It’s a short stroll around the harbor.
  20131215_210346 In December 2013 as part of my round the world itinerary, I visited Sydney, Australia. Like many tourists, my primary reason for going was to get a picture in front of the famous Sydney Opera House. The events that unfolded upon my arrival remain a mystery to this very day. I arrived in Sydney after a few days in Wellington, New Zealand excited that I was staying at unquestionably the nicest hotel in all of Australia, the Park Hyatt Sydney. First, the Park Hyatt is my favorite hotel brand. The service can’t be beat, the locations are unmatched, and the complimentary pens are of top quality. This was certainly case of the Park Hyatt Sydney. At check in the front desk was more than gracious and offered me a welcome glass of champagne. A member of the staff escorted me to my room that had a stunning bathroom, an incomparable king size bed, and the required espresso machine. Then I was shown the balcony which had a view of the Opera House. In fact, the hotel itself is directly situated in front of the Opera House giving credence to the claim that Park Hyatt’s are located in the top locations worldwide. Scribbling notes of where to go with my sparkling new Park Hyatt silver pen, I felt right at home. yup, park hyatt DSC00435 DSC00422 DSC00421 My first stop was the Sydney Harbour Bridge where I passed on climbing the bridge from what the concierge told me was, “the best tourist experience in all of the world.” Even if he was right and the views climbing the bridge somehow rivaled climbing the Great Wall, there was no way I was going to pay $300 for that experience. And this is where the mystery begins. At the gift shop, I purchased a Koala souvenir. We became immediately inseparable. We took pictures everywhere together.
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The koala accompanied up to lookout point of the bridge.
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Our time at the Opera House
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Us in front of the Park Hyatt and Bridge, where we first met
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IMG-20131218-00489 I went out to dinner early in the evening leaving the koala in the room for some needed R&R. Upon my return, I saw the koala tucked in comfortably by housekeeping, spent from a day touring downtown Sydney. DSC00531 The next morning I awoke to find the koala missing. I searched the bed, the bags, and the balcony for the koala but he was nowhere to be found. I called the front desk to report the missing koala and they assured me that they would do their best to locate him when the cleaned the room. Dejected, I left the room for the beach hopeful that the koala would be waiting for me when I returned. That was not the case and I never saw the koala again. I am not sure what happened to him but am grateful for the time we spent together at the beautiful Park Hyatt Sydney. I know that he is still somewhere exploring Australia as I get postcards of him every once in awhile. IMGA0089

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